"Cuenta tu propia historia y serás interesante'', escribió. "No te contagies del mal verde de la envidia. No te dejes engañar por el éxito y el dinero. No dejes que nada se interponga entre tu arte y tú''. "Tell your own story, and you will be interesting. Don't get the green disease of envy. Don't be fooled by success and money. Don't let anything come between you and your work."
Louise Bourgeois

Friday, May 25, 2012

Take Care of Your Art and Your Art Will Always Take Care of You

I received this advice many years ago by writer Nicholasa Mohr. It has always remained with me because I know that, as an artist, it is the best thing I can do in order to grow and continue moving towards my goals.

This morning I spent a couple of hours reorganizing and adding pieces to my portfolio. I have a goal to get my artwork into 100 stores, and this was an important step to realize it, so I finally sat down and did it. I could not have imagined that I would use it by this afternoon.

A few minutes ago my husband came to pick it up to show it to someone in charge of grants given by the LMCC or one such organization distributing fund for art projects in Manhattan. Not only he has never done that before, but I had no idea this opportunity would come like that all of a sudden. I feel there is a little bit of magic involved in the whole process.

I was taking care of my art this morning, after all!

I don't know whether anything will come out of this, but I do know one thing: the more energy you put into making your dreams come true, the closer they will be, and the faster they will become realities. So, take care of your art and your art will always take care of you. I hope I get a $5,000 grant! And I hope you do, too!!!

Monday, May 21, 2012

Tertulias

For a while, since coming back from Prague, I was feeling pretty bad. I was not myself, and have not been for a while. That's why I bought new makeup, went for walks every day, and when I felt a little better, announced the next Noche de arte, letras y vida. I did this so late, few people were able to come, but that was not the point. The point was to rescue that part of me I have been starving to death in the last few years.

Thursday, May 17, 2012

6 Tips on How to Travel With Art

Traveling with artwork is not easy, especially if you are traveling on a budget, but if you are looking forward into expanding the horizons of your art pieces, here are a few tips:

1. Small and light: Work small or make the piece divide into several smaller components that you can fit in a suitcase. When I took my work to an exhibition in Cuba, I brought a piece that expanded to about 40" x 60", but it was made up of separate parts sewn onto a cloth that I could fold. It fits in an express mail box. That was a good experience, but I also have a bad one: last month I traveled to Prague with 12 paintings on canvas, on their wood supports. I got fancy and bought the expensive ones, which means they were HEAVY and difficult to carry around. Go for the lightweight wood supports and your life will be great!

2. Avoid extra-large suitcases. They are very expensive to check into the airplane and cumbersome. Keep in mind that, outside of the U.S., people usually don't have super-sized cars and taxis are tiny. I did this when I took 11 pieces about 18" x 24" to Puerto Rico, and luckily we were able to travel by van, because otherwise, I don't know what we would have done.

3. Don't place your work in cardboard boxes. Airlines usually don't allow this for international travel. I did this once, those same 18" x 24" frames... and almost lost my flight and opportunity to exhibit. One thing you can do is cover the box with a cloth bag. Then it becomes a suitcase... I sent 3 paintings this way to another exhibition in Dominican Republic and it worked.

4. Work flat. If you can fit everything into a portfolio or roll, great! In 2010, my friend Raquel and I took our work on the road, and I wanted to make sure it would be easy to set up and take down each time we presented it for a few hours, so I bought folding easels and made several paintings on flat canvas boards. It was such a great system, I didn't even pay overweight or extra luggage for the flight.

5. Check the airline's rules for traveling with art. I didn't think of this until last month, when I was trying to figure out the best way to take 12 paintings on 1.5" thick canvases to Prague. In the end, we checked the suitcases and took the paintings as two carry-ons because the airline specified that you are not to check artwork, and if you do, you have to sign a release form. Although I had already decided to take them with me by hand because I didn't want to show up in Prague "paintings-less" if something happened...  I wrapped the paintings with interleaf paper and placed them face to face (2 paintings + 2 paintings + 2 paintings) in a plastic bag, then in shopping bags (like those large Costco bags.)  6 canvases 16" x 20" x 1.5" each  fit perfectly in the overhead bin.

6.  Create a checklist and check off each item as you pack. You don't want to go shopping in a foreign country, I think! I forgot to pack tape for Prague, and wrapping the paintings in the interleaf papers for the flight back was not fun. They kept unwrapping themselves.

Much success in your future art travels and, most of all, have fun! That's what it's all about!


Friday, May 04, 2012

Last day in Prague

We rode the train from Budapest to Prague for about 8 hours. I wrote half of the way, but the trip still seemed long. And on our way I started realizing, and regretting, that I didn’t ask for directions to the hotel. I thought I knew where it was, “very close to the Prague Convention Centre.”

We got there by Metro and that’s when I fully realized I had no idea which way to walk. I had read a review of the King Charles Boutique Hotel when I booked it that said that the hotel was right under a castle. And that was all, plus the address, of course.

We asked an official person in the Metro station that told Juan we had to go back two stops from where we were, but I knew for sure we were in the right metro, so I insisted that we look in the map. The names of the streets were so tiny they were nearly useless, but Juan managed to locate the street by chance and, yes, it was somewhere near where we were.

For a moment we thought it might be on the other side of the station, and we had already gone up and down the stairs with our two suitcases… Luckily, I saw a sign to the castle and we walked in that direction. Some time later, we saw a hotel, and I went in and asked where the street was, but the girl said it was “down” so we kept walking down the street. A hill with two suitcases and a backpack is no easy task. I was carrying the backpack, which felt super heavy, and Juan rolling one suitcase in front of him and one in the back. Soon, we were not sure which way to roll, so I tried to locate someone to ask for directions. There were some very young couples, but I didn’t want to interrupt their romance. An older man came out of a tunnel, and his white beard and hair seemed respectable enough, and he had no girlfriend kissing him, so I chose him. He smiled, pushed me by the waist in a very flirty way and asked me to follow him, half English, half Czech. I felt weird and like laughing at the same time, so I decided to trust him and followed. Juan was not far, with the suitcases. First the man indicated the way, and I didn’t quite get it, so he crossed the street with me to point straight ahead. I smile widely and thanked him and we were on our way.

Finally, we made it, but only to find out that I had made a mistake when I booked. I meant to book 2 nights and booked 3. Still, this was better than the opposite situation, and the young woman at the reception told me not to worry, we had our room. They still charged me for the room, but at least we had a room in Prague during the high season, when everything is booked. And that was a great relief.

1. This hotel was in a totally different part of the city, which led us to the conclusion that no matter which way you walk in Prague, you will find something beautiful. We were under the Vyšehrad Castle, an area apparently inhabited by artists, a gay community and working class families. The hotel is exaggeratedly ornate in its décor, but it was kind of fun to sleep under a canopy and have a rocking chair in the room. I also liked the Giant wall hanging of the Vitruvian Man, which was a cool touch in an otherwise neo-rococo style. That day we were too exhausted to go far, so we ate Vietnamese food in a nearby restaurant. It was super cheap (something like $3 per dish, and they were big…) and delicious, so we were very happy. The Vietnamese community arrived in the old Czechoslovakia during communism to “study” but really, according to our source, it was to work in factories. Same with Cubans. Then a portion of their paychecks was sent to their countries. When things changed, they had already built their lives there and stayed. There are many restaurants of this type, just like Chinese restaurants in NYC, and with the same concept of food from pictures that you can choose by number. The girl understood English, too. And we had a great meal.

I couldn’t sleep well this night. I think realizing it is time to go back got to me. I very much want to go back, but at the same time dread what awaits. I have to deal with the mural that burned, I have to finish a commission, I have to organize an exhibition of the paintings I am bringing back, and I have to fix my house and prepare for a long-term visit from my dear nephew who has been having a teenagehood attack worthy of calling some Russian troops to the rescue. And then I will go to New Mexico in August for a month or so to be the grandma of my beloved friend who will be having a baby and that’s something I can’t miss. (It was my grandma who saved my life when I gave birth, so that’s why I say grandma and not sister or mother…)

Our last day was truly a Grand Finale. We met Mercedes, a Cuban woman whose love story placed her in Prague three days before the Russian takeover, and she was stuck here during the whole communist era. She was a young student in Cuba who was assigned to give first aid to a Czech math professor who had gotten hit on the head (I think from being too tall, nothing too dramatic…) Then it all took off from there and he wanted her to visit his family in Prague, but her family said, No way, you are not leaving unless you get married first, and they got married and went to Czechoslovakia. I think they were expecting to go back to Cuba, but three days later, the Russians arrived and they made their life here. I liked the love story! And Mercedes was the most wonderful tourist guide in the world! We had tons of tours, but she was the best. Then we went to church with her, in Mala Strana. Poor Juan was stuck in the front row, getting up and kneeling, and singing. But it was a wonderful part of the Czech experience because we got to meet lots of Spanish speaking people who live in Prague and even the Dominican consul was there, so Juan spent the whole agape talking to him. Then the priest showed us the antique library. We saw thousands of ancient books, an antique Lutheran Bible and an atlas, as well as had a closer look at the frescos on the ceiling of the church. All in Spanish!

Next, we had to go pick up the paintings, and made a stop in between to eat a snack in a fancy Thai restaurant at the exit of the metro. It was delicious, but a fancy restaurant in the subway? Strange! And they even had a terrace overlooking the city. It was hot, so we stayed inside.

Paul, his wife Lenka and daughter Tereza met us at the congress center. We had invited them to dinner to thank them and say good-bye. They helped put away the paintings and then we went to a typical Czech restaurant in Old Town Prague. On our way there was a surprise awaiting us: Paul had arranged for all of us to go by horse carriage to the restaurant from the main square! That was fun, and so cute of him!

We said good bye with the promise to see all of them in NYC.

We had one last stop. The Hard Rock Café… yes, our son sort of collects the t-shirts, so we went to get one for him and another for Jean Carlos, my nephew. Oh well, it’s getting to be a tradition.

Back home, I spent the first few days very tired and very sad. This trip moved me in ways I did not expect. It made me think of what I want, what I don’t want, what I like and don’t. It made me revise my everyday life and my extraordinary life. Extraordinary as in away from a routine, and extraordinary as in all the gifts I receive everyday. And it made me think of what are the next steps in my artistic career, as well as in the design of other areas my life. I don’t think it had anything to do with the things I saw and did, but with the collisions that occurred inside of me. I had the most conflictive feelings all along, both of wonder and boredom, excitement and sadness, learning and mental exhaustion with memory loss. By the last day I was unable to remember which was the virgin I wanted to see in Prague, and was embarrassed when the priest tried to help me and I could not be sure of the name. I felt a lot of embarrassment during the whole trip for lots of different reason, a feeling I am not used to. I, who am not afraid to stand in front of 1,000 people to talk, was embarrassed all the time here. Which I think had causes beyond its manifestation. When I arrived in NYC, I just wanted to be quiet, in bed, but was tormented at the thought of all I had to do. I tried to begin, but couldn’t.

Then I did what I tend to do when I feel lost: go to the bookstore. I walked 40 blocks. I bought an umbrella for the rain. I read a book the asked, What is your purpose? Those are the epiphanies I get in the bookstore.

I am working on a life plan right now, so that the next trip I take will not hit me so hard. So I can enjoy life more fully. Whatever it is I need to do, needs to be done soon. Or at least I need to begin making some changes. The good thing is that I have most of the pieces in place and I know that this is just one of those moments that are designed by the Great Universe to push you to the next level when you have let yourself become too comfortable with situations that are not taking you anywhere. I know my lack of energy comes from not doing the things that give me energy, and compromising all the time with things that just suck it out of me. And even when I know all this, how did I get here when I was so far from this place not so long ago. Bad habits crawl back up to you if you let them. Except now, I am more aware. That is good.

One thing I know right now: I need a support team. If I want that mural and any other mural on the wall, I need the people that can make it possible without me agonizing over it. Rather than giving up on murals, I need to find some people to do what I dislike and am not good at, like measuring, cutting and installing. That way my brain will be free to create, and I will help other people get jobs, too. It is a simple thing, why have I not done it? I am not very good giving orders, and my perfectionism kills me, so I prefer to work alone and save the bad feelings. Time to get over it!

So this is what this trip was all about, and this is where it has brought me. Lots of people saw my art, and I have stats to prove it: 96 visits to my blog from the Czech Republic, a country that never before figured in my stats. Considering how many things we see without bothering to write down a website and then looking it up, 96 is very good. How does this translate into furthering my art career? I think, most of all, it shows I am willing to make the investment in my own path. It adds to my arsenal when I present myself to people through my art blog and in person. It tells my customers that I am not stuck, and that one day their investment in my work will pay off (although I hope it is already paying off!) And it tells me that the world is wide open, and all I need to do is reach out. Sales? They were not permitted at the Congress Centre, and I decided that was not the point of this trip. That part comes next, here in NYC. Two pieces have already sold just from hanging them in my living room and casual visits to my studio. I just need to actually put effort into that!

When I thought I would die, I remember feeling that it was ok, I had accomplished much. Now, if I had to die, I would feel disappointed that I still have so much to accomplish. Weird but true. So now I go to work, to assemble my team, and go forward in that plan not yet conceived. The end.

Tuesday, May 01, 2012

Budapest

We arrived at the Keleti station in the afternoon, relaxed from the Vienna English-rich, tourist-friendly atmosphere. Soon, though, we saw no English signs, nothing that resembled a metro logo, and nobody to ask about this new place. After visiting 3 information desks, nobody could tell us anything, and I was only given train schedules for our trip back in five days. We finally asked a couple of maintenance guys about the address where we were going, and they recommended that we take a taxi. One of them kindly guided us to where we could find one. But the problem with taxis is that we always seem to have problems with taxi drivers, no matter what city we’re in, so I have come to dread the process. This day, we had a couple of missteps negotiating the price, and then went on our way to the hotel.

The Swing Hotel was a big step down from the great Kempinski in Prague! Next door, a gyro restaurant, a “Sex Shop” and an “exotic dancers” establishment, too. Inside, not too terrible, but there was no elevator and our little suitcases were heavy after the trip. Our concierge was a very serious man, who did his job without going too out of his way. Well, for 190 euros and 5 nights in a city we knew nothing about, we were willing to explore the downgrade from 5 stars to 1 star. Perhaps 2?

I won’t continue to describe the impressions of the hotel, because it was all erased soon enough, and it turned out to be a great deal after all. But that first day, we had to eat, and the concierge recommended a restaurant where they served traditional Hungarian food, and it was in a street that very much felt like our own neighborhood but in the 90s… Well, we are used to it, and after all, it felt real. No grown-up Disneyworld here, but real people coming and going with their shopping, their moves and their kids. The waiter insisted that we order some super-sized menu of Hungarian food, and seemed kind of annoyed when we decided to order more conservative platters. The food tasted good, but it was heavy food and we were so full we had to go to bed after the meal. Later that night, we started over.

The waiter at the restaurant said that we should go downtown, and pointed in the direction we should head. So we just started walking that way, and soon found a big museum, a metro station, a lot of “antiquariums” which here means bookstores that sell old books. The city looked kind of beat up, like Havana, but bigger scaled. Then we saw a newer hotel, and a Spanish Tapas bar, and felt sort of relieved that things were improving as we walked in this direction. But it was already late and we headed back.

I spent some hours before sleeping figuring out what to do in Budapest. I had a faint idea of what to see here from a quick Internet search back in NYC, but Juan had managed to get a little book for tourists that contained transportation maps, things to do, and was pretty much an advertisement of the Budapest card, which seemed like a good deal.

I decided we were going to the “Buda Castle”. Before that, we bought 2 Budapest cards at the hotel, which would get us transportation and free admission to 4 museums, and a couple of these museums were located at “Buda Castle.” The concierge told us to take a tram line, but Juan had asked him to validate the cards for 1 pm, thinking we were going to have breakfast before leaving, but breakfast was a coffee in a disposable plastic cup and a chocolate croissant, which took like 15 minutes, and it was only about 11: 30. We decided to walk near the tram, next to the Danube.

We still saw quite a few drug addicts, but the sights were getting prettier. We passed by the University of Budapest, a high school, a building that combined an old design with a futuristic one. And then we bumped into the market.

I had read about it the night before and thought I wanted to visit, but of course, had no idea where it was. When I saw it, I was in Heaven. There were all kinds of food being sold, and people doing their shopping. There was fresh orange juice and fruits, and other sections for gourmet goods, crafts and souvenirs, and lots of places to eat. Luckily I was not hungry, because I would have gotten a hunger attack in that place, so we navigated the long building with only our curiosity and not our craving. I don’t like shopping centers, but I love traditional markets like this, where you can find people selling and buying like in the old times. Also, this market was very different from the large market in Cairo, where you have to be careful not to be pulled into one of the stores and get harassed by the vendors (and in many occasions women have to be especially careful because the harassment is sexual and I can tell you that: a man with rotten teeth kissed me on the mouth… an experience I would rather not remember.) Here it is all very nice and organized, clean, beautiful, happy. We exited on the other side and saw one of the bridges that cross from Pest to Buda.

We walked across the bridge, trying to figure out where and what was the Buda Castle. The girl that sold us the croissants had no idea what we were talking about. We should have done what smart tourists do, and that is follow other tourists, but no, we tried our luck and took a wrong turn that sent us quite far from our objective. There were some stairs that we thought led to the castle (a castle is at the top of a hill, always, after all!), but they were so high I didn’t want to go up just to find out that they led somewhere else. We saw a couple coming down and figured they knew what they were doing, which led us to go up the stairs where we found a Japanese couple that informed us there was no castle there. Back down again, we tried another route, and figured out we had gone a long way from our objective when we took that left turn about an hour ago… But now were on the right track and I saw a bus that had the correct numbers on it, and, finally, we found an entrance to the fort through the back. So we entered Buda Castle por la retaguardia.


There we saw a museum and when we presented our cards… they had changed the rules and, oh, well, we only had a 50% discount. Luckily, Budapest is not an expensive city and the equivalent of what we had to pay was about $3 each. I loved this museum of Budapest history because it really was a good introduction to the city we were about to discover. We learned about its history from before the Celts arrived to the Communist Era. They had English translations in almost everything, which was great for us. In the café we had nice espresso and cappuccino and delicious cake for about $6, so liberating! And it was WAY BETTER than the coffee in Vienna. I was so relieved that now I could drink my drug of choice not only at a great price but the way it should be done. Allah Bless the Great Turks for bringing their splendid way of life to this great city!

After walking outside (on our way to the castle) and inside the museum for at least 7 hours, we were dying. So we took the bus and arrived in the center of Pest, where things were looking different. There were nice cafes, we saw the Merlin theater (English language theater,) plazas… little by little we were discovering Budapest and the contrasts it contains.

The next day we returned to see the rest of the Buda Castle. Buda Castle is really a series of buildings that have suffered greatly at times of war and only the ruins of the castle remain within what is now a Budapest history museum. It is very interesting to visit, but it might be very difficult for people who have trouble going up and down stairs. I didn’t see any elevators or lifts, but I might be wrong and it is worth asking. We went to the towers and saw all of Budapest from there. This day we walked the little old streets within the citadel, and met a painter in his studio who asked us about fairies in our countries because he is writing a book about fairies in the whole world. We told him we had none, but we have the Ciguapa in Dominican Republic and the Chupacabras in Puerto Rico, which might be a nice addition to his research. He loved history and made history paintings of battles as well as rather malefic-looking fairy paintings.

We saw the hills of Buda (or at least some hills in the back wall of the citadel) and we also saw the ruins of the Magdalene Church. We walked the whole place and then went to the Hungarian National Gallery. I saw the work of one painter that I really liked and wrote down so I could research more about him later: Csontvary Kosztka Tivadar. His paintings were large and hung between the floors of the museum, taking the space of a great wall that divided the space from one floor to the next. He created around 1907 and his paintings have a mystical element, a taste of fauvism and primitivism, and an originality of vision compared to the rest of the works in the museum.

This day, Juan said he wanted to go see a soccer game at a bar. Lucky choice for me because when we finally got back to the hotel I was so exhausted I could not get up from bed after I lay down to rest a little. The trip was catching up with me in Budapest. So I was glad this could qualify as an independent adventure and just stayed resting and reading. He told me he talked to some locals at the bar he found nearby, had two beers, and that Germany had won against Spain. The guys were for Germany, of course, being closer. And Juan showed up eating a gyro, which perfumed the room, and considering I had not had dinner, made me hungry. But I was more tired than hungry and just went to sleep.

The next day we walked on another street from the hotel toward the city center, where we discovered Ráday utca, a whole street of nice restaurants, moderately priced with outside seating. So this is where we should have walked to the first day, had I only done some research… And then we realized that we had been so near to it the day we discovered the Spanish Tapas Bar. Now we knew! This street is famous and a great place to eat.

In just a couple of days, we became experts in riding all sorts of public transport in Budapest, so we were ready to go to Memento Park, the place where they put the statues that came down when the communist government fell. This was one of my favorite days in Budapest. We had to take 2 trams and a bus that took us far into those same hills we had seen the day before from the citadel. And it kept going and going, crossing highways and buildings and houses until we got to a less urbanized place and the bus voice said “Memento Park.” We entered and the first thing we heard was music playing in an old radio, the hymns of the communist era. There was also the statue of Stalin that we had seen come down in a video we saw back in the history museum. And the boots of Stalin, giant size. Then we walked in the sculpture garden (but it has no flowers or even grass, just earth and weeds in the empty areas) and saw a series of statues. I later saw a postcard with an air view of the design. It is thoughtfully designed, both respecting the art and expressing the contrary feelings of Hungarians about this time. The statues were impressive, true art within its context. Not so much the portraits of men, but the ones that sought to express the workers’ pleas.

Then we went to the barracks. There they were showing a film made in 2006 about a secret film lab where, during the communist era, they created educational films to train spies. It explained the process of recruiting informants and how the equipment, secret messages, and other special methods were to be used and delivered. The secret lab and films it created were so secret even the person who managed the projector had to step out of the room while a film was on. It had a full time staff and used even famous actors and actresses to act in the teaching films about how to be a spy for the Hungarian government.

The more we walked, the bigger the city looked. After visiting Memento Park, eating and resting, I wanted to go see the river. They have river cruises, but I was not interested. I just wanted to walk by its side and see what people do there. But first I wanted to walk by Andrassy Street because the brochure said it was “the most beautiful street in Budapest.” I suspected that this meant lots of designer shops, but still had to go and check it out, and I was right, but the great thing about Andrassy was that we found the building of the Opera, and the Cathedral of St. Stephen nearby. After exploring this old part of town, new for us of course!, and making it a point to see the next day and go have coffee in the cafes of the plaza in front of the cathedral, we kept on walking toward the river.

That’s when we discovered the rich tourists’ part of Budapest! We had been wondering if Budapest was all poor because the part where our glamorous hotel was located is so beat up. Now we could see a great contrast. Expensive restaurants, cafes, well-kept buildings, beauty and sophistication everywhere. This is not where we were coming to eat, but it still was nice to see. After all, nobody wants to visit a place where there is only poverty and no hope of improvement. And Budapest is so beautiful that when you are here you want to know that someone will fix the buildings that are deteriorated and not let them rot and fall at some point. I know the consequences of gentrification for poor people, but at the same time, if buildings are not kept, they do deteriorate and eventually fall. And then there is nowhere to go either. But I was not lucubrating about this while we were walking; I was just enjoying the views. And as we kept on walking, we saw the river.

The view from the river was stunning, especially at the time in the evening when there was still light. You could see the Buda Castle and the bridge, lighted. We walked for a while, and then sat to see the people walk by. Unlike Cuba and Santo Domingo, where the malecones are more of a party place, here people walked quietly, and it was all very tranquil. There were some teenagers having fun, too, but they were also passing by. You could only hear some jazz coming from the hotel behind us and the buses and trams passing by. Then I wanted a virgin mojito from Pata Negra, the Spanish Tapas Bar.

We discovered Pata Negra on our first night and then went back for a late lunch the next day. They had no tables left, all were reserved, but they said we could sit at the bar. This is a tapas bar after all, that was fine with me. After our first meal here we were reconsidering Hugarian food. It was so heavy, we didn’t want to spend the entire trip sleeping and trying to recover from eating! So we went for the promise of lighter delicious food at Pata Negra. It was fulfilled. We had salad, Spanish/French style bread (which I was missing!!!!) and some tiny palomilla steaks and manchego cheese. And I had a Virgin Mojito, with lots of mint, very refreshing. I don’t know how so little food filled us so well, but we just could not go on eating so many heavy meals. I guess we were missing home. At least here we knew what we were getting!

The day we went to Memento Park, we also had lunch at a typical “bufe.” Bufe must mean buffet, but in the style of college cafeterias, where you ask for the dish you want and someone serves you. Then you go and pay at the register. Most bufe restaurants seem to be Turkish, but I saw the same concept at the market with traditional Hungarian food. There are lots of Turkish restaurants here and this one seemed like it could have a bathroom, so we went it. I ordered one of those famous gyros, which in Budapest are served with a burrito kind of flour tortilla, like a wrap but warm and a little toasted. And they can be chicken or lamb. I chose chicken and that was really good. Juan chose Turkish rice and chicken in sauce with vegetables. Yes, he was missing home… He loved it so much we even went back to this place the next day. We were kind of afraid of Hungarian traditional food and, after all, the Turks were here for 150 years, so it is not like we were not eating what Hungarians eat!

Food and transportation has become a theme with me I guess… Well, what else do you need when you are trying to see a city? You need to move and you need to eat in order to move! Oh, and you need good coffee of course. After the Turkish place I wanted desert, but not Turkish because I can have Baclava in NYC. I wanted something… Italian? A few blocks ahead we found an outdoor Italian café. The sun was beautiful this day, really the first glorious day of spring we got in Europe, and this outdoor cafe was perfect. I ordered espresso con panna and panacotta with raspberry topping. (Sorry Jefa, when you read this I will be guilty of reminding you of our favorite treat at Yo In Yo Out…!) The coffee was so glorious, I had to announce it in Facebook. And I don’t do that unless something is truly magnificent!

After eating, riding. This must be one of the cities with the best transportation. Once you have your map and a pass, it is all so easy and accessible. For about $7 per day or less, you can go everywhere. They even have a ticket that admits about 5 people riding together for (I think) 5 days for only about $20. Unfortunately, we didn’t know this and bought the Budapest card, 3 days for 31 euros, which is not as good a deal as it seems from the advertisements. But that was ok, tourists who choose freedom from tourist guides must make mistakes, and we loved moving freely around in this city. Though we did walk a lot, like in the other cities, and often preferred to walk instead of riding. But it felt good to know that you could hop on something pretty much anywhere and it would take you where you were going. It seemed as if every single street had a tram, bus, metro or combination of these. I am probably exaggerating, but it really seemed that way, especially in the center of Pest.

The last day we were already losing strength after so many days traveling. This day I decided to “work.” I have been visiting pilgrimage places or miraculous Virgin Marys in each of the places we visited. I plan to write about these topics for Ángeles y Milagros and thought it was a good idea to go on little pilgrimages as a way of doing research and experiencing the things I write about. This way I can write the personal experiences in the blog and more general articles for the site. I had planned to go to a pilgrimage place to see “Our Lady of Remete” in the outskirts of Budapest, but could not find an address before leaving NYC or while in Budapest. The night before I did some research and kind of figured out how to get there (with the help of google translations!), but after the long trip to Memento Park, I was not sure we should make such a long trip the day before leaving. And in the process of researching this place I discovered another, nearer place, right across that first bridge we crossed to Buda, with a replica of my favorite advocation of the Virgin Mary, Our Lady Of Chestochowa. And there were also the St. Stephen relics, Saint King of Budapest, at the cathedral. I had a plan.

It always feels strange to walk into a church where they charge to see things or it is some sort of hybrid between a museum and a church, but this is the rule in the great churches of this area at least. St. Stephen’s Basilica dates from the 19th century, is neo-classical in style, and contains the relic and treasury of King Saint Stephen. I was relieved to find out they only charge for the treasury and the view from the tower, but you can see the relics in a special chapel of the church. If you want to see them lighted, pay a few coins for 3 minutes of light. I didn’t have any coins, so I only saw the reliquary and the shape of the inner reliquary in the shape of a hand. These relics were in many places of Europe before finally being brought back to Hungary, the country of St. Stephen. I still need to learn why these countries have the tradition of having king-saints. There is another such king-saint in Prague.

For the Church in the Cave, we rented audio guides that told us about the history of the church and each of the chambers within. This church was created by Pauline monks. From it, during nazi occupation, Hungarians went on pilgrimage with the main purpose of asking the intersession of the Virgin Mary to deliver Hungary from the War during WWI. At this time, the monks took in and protected refuges and people performed rogations and pilgrimages to Spain and Lourdes leaving from here. After the Communist rule began, its entrance was covered with what seemed like concrete, but apparently the interior was left undamaged. And I was so glad because it is breathtakingly beautiful. Being in a cave (some of it man-made with explosives) the light is low and restful, the images and decorations unique, and far from the neoclassical grandiosity of the Basilica. This church is closer to Matisse’s beautiful chapel, conceived in great detail by his vision. I don’t know whose vision created this church, but it seems like it was the original creation of a specific person who conceived the place with a specific ideal in mind. Of course, there is a reference to the Lourdes Grotto as you enter, but inside it expands into something else. There was a funeral going on the last, exposed and naturally lighted chamber, and the monks were chanting, which really added to the beauty of the place. The Crucifix in the main chamber is a replica of one in Spain, and in a smaller and diagonally opposite chamber is the replica of the Black Madonna of Częstochowa, a gift of friendship from Poland, where the original is in Krakow. This little pilgrimage is going to help me explore the idea of how and why replicas of miraculous images are considered to have the same miraculous properties as their originals. We’ll see how it goes.

For our last day in Budapest, we had to rest in the afternoon because I just could not go on, but at night, revived by a miraculous siesta, we headed back to that restaurant-lined street. We had no idea what we wanted to eat, but I had been curious about a Persian restaurant I had seen the first day. When we passed by, we looked at the menu and it seemed attractive: broiled meat and salads were not unlike what I cook at home. We wanted to seat outside, but there was nothing available, but when we agreed to go inside, we did not regret it. It was great! We stepped into the tent of some sheik with low seats and tables, veils trimmed with gold, and even a belly dancer that made several appearances as the night went on. I had a secret desire of seeing dancing, but we didn’t have time or made reservations, so I had given up on that, so when the belly dancer appeared I felt this was really the grand finale of the trip. All my wishes had come true!

We stayed here until everyone else left, and then walked back to the hotel saying good bye to this beautiful city. Even the Swing Hotel was looking good by now, so cheap and so close to everything, with its #4 and #6 tram stop right in front of the door. Viva the Swing! But be brave if you choose it…

Writing on the train back to Prague, I am feeling exhausted and ready to go home. There is still one more stop and a truly grand finale. But that will be in Prague, tomorrow.